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19th June 2006

chainedmelody9:17pm: Real Time Gorean Lodge discussion group
Greetings Masters,
Greetings Mistresses,
Greetings slaves,

This forum is a bit quiet, though it serves it purpose. There is another egroup that my Master runs which is on yahoo and called Real Time Gorean Lodge. If you are interested, you can find the group at: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RTGoreanLodge/

We also have a discussion room on Paltalk under Adult Discussion by the same name. The group isn't always open, but more information on schedules of when it will be open, shall be posted to both groups as it comes available. I can be found on there under velledana_JBH

25th November 2005

chainedmelody1:07am: Real Time Gorean Lodge Group
To further the sense of community between local real time
Gorean lists and organizations, the Arizona Lodge has sponsored
the creation of a real time Gorean Lodge site on Yahoo groups
called RTGorean Lodge. The link is...

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RTGoreanLodge/

The purpose of this message group is to foster communication
and sharing of information between various local real time groups,
such as AZ Goreans, Las Vegas Goreans, Colorado Goreans, NM
Goreans, etc.

Member or Administrators of local real time Groups are welcome
to join, add a link to their group within our links section, upload an
ad or description of their group in our files section, and to add their
local events that are open to those travelling on our Group calendar.

RT Gorean Lodge is a place where Goreans can come to either see
what is going on near them, or near places where they may be
travelling. Also, discussions of real life topics are always going on
in the messages section.

The only requirements for joining RTGoreansLodge is that you be
21 years of age or older, and that you have an age and general location
listed in the profile that you join under. Both free and slaves are
welcome as members.

4th June 2005

chainedmelody8:33pm: Greetings Masters,
Greetings Mistresses,
Greetings slaves,

Master was released from the hospital today and is
home! *does a little jiggy dance* Even though the IV
therapy will continue for a couple more weeks, at
least he's hommmmmmmmmmmmmmme!

Very happy little kajira

2nd June 2005

chainedmelody4:30pm: On Sunday, Master was admitted into the hospital
for a very serious infection. Please keep your
thoughts and prayers with him.

31st March 2005

chainedmelody5:00pm: PItching a question out there.
Would a Gorean Warrior challenge a Scribe to a duel? How realistic is this?

12th March 2005

masterjim11:35am: I have set it up so visitors to my web site can upload their favorite photos and BDSM-related images .. FREE

I will continue this privilege unless it is abused ...

Master Jim
www.clik.to/bdsmjim


UPLOAD INSTRUCTIONS









x-posted to personal journal
Current Mood: creative

11th March 2005

cherielle4:55pm: Friends after release
i was just wondering, how many here have been able to remain friends with their Dominant/slave after a release? It seems that every time i've been released, for some reason or another we're not able to remian friends. i was just released on Monday and at least this time we're trying to stay friends, just not sure if it's going to work.
Current Mood: contemplative

4th March 2005

chainedmelody4:14pm: Disabilties and the Gorean Lifestyle
Greetings Masters,
Greetings Mistresses,
Greetings slaves,

If there were a real time gathering of Gorean lifestylers, where there was going to be a feast, dancing, ect. And a kajirae had a medical problem that affected the way that she walks and causes an inability to stand on her feet for very long. Should the group exclude the girl from participation, telling her that she cannot attend, simply because she has this condition?

Can a girl be a kajira, if she has disabilities and/or medical conditions that may limit what she can do?

1st March 2005

anjel_kitty10:51am: A few questions I would like to pose.
I am not involved with the Gor Lifestyle, nor have I read any of the books, but after learning about this particular subculture I have been disturbed and at the same time fascinated about its implications.
I would therefore like to throw some questions out there mostly aimed at the women who self identify with this subculture and are involved in the life style. Please excuse any sort of misconceptions that I hold as my understanding is limited to the resources I have read online about it.
1. Firstly, what is the attraction to a subculture that completely subjugates women and demands they be treated solely as sex objects? Being a feminist, and have spent a good portion of my life working against such ideas, I find it very hard to understand how any women would willingly participate in such a lifestyle.
2. Secondly, what is it that brought you to Gor? I can easily see why men would be attracted to this lifestyle and philosophy , but I fail to see where women would accept it.
3. Why Gor and not other subcultures of the BDSM lifestyle that is less structured by gender, and more so structured by power relationships and desires of those involved?
4. Is Gor simply an online fantasy for you, or something you enact in real life and ascribe to personally?
Once again please excuse any misconceptions I might have of Gor, and please do not take any of my questions or statements as judging those of you involved. I honestly would like to better understand what Gor is and if my assumptions and limited knowledge about women with in Gor are true, why any women would want to subjugate her self and simply be known as an object of sexual pleasure.
Thank you for your time and I look forward to reading your comments and input.

cross posted to gor_online cause I saw this was a bigger more active community after I made my post on the other one
Current Mood: curious

28th January 2005

chainedmelody7:53pm: Question
Some slaves are known for using third person speech. Such as "this slave greets you" ect. How many of you require such of your girls? Does it drive anyone crazy to hear a slave speaking like this? Or writing like this? Did the slaves truly speak in third person in the books?

27th October 2004

bionicles_kiss10:38pm: Introductions....

It was in the early months of this year when I had a relationship with a man that opened my eyes to the true beauty and importance of dominance and submission....The yearning to take care of the other in such a way that the...well..."norm society" frowns upon from lack of understanding. Eventually we went into separate directions but because of that mind opening experience, I can't seem to stop yearning for a taste of the Gorean lifestyle....

So having said that, the other day it just dawned on me that the movie Dracula had mildly touched on this concept...



Anyways, just felt like sharing this little thought...

1st October 2004

chainedmelody4:29am: Working Goreans
"Being a Gorean free person means not becoming slaves of anything or anyone" ; I was wondering how you might apply that to holding down a job which pays little more
than "slave wages" and working for a boss or supervisor whom you may dislike. Using your definition, should a free Gorean man work only as an independent
contractor or self employed business person? Or does giving oneself up to low paying
and unpleasant job still qualify one as a Gorean Free person?

7th August 2004

masterslilbrat3:07pm: This one is confused and wonders at the acceptance of many Gorean Masters to
the unslavelike attitude of some girls. If one is to be true to the
teachings that we follow, then surely, when a girl chooses....yes, thats
right, chooses, to submit to this life, we enter willingly.  We chose a life
of total surrender to another.  We give up our rights to the freedoms that
the average western woman demands today.
The Australian Oxford dictionary defines slave as ' A person who is owned by
and has to serve another'.
Of course, this girl is aware that we live in a society that has laws.  Laws
granting us freedom of speech...laws against slavery...against murder and
theft, and in some places, laws against abortion.  And this girl agrees that
we need laws to protect society.  However, when this girl became a slave she
handed over her right to use these laws to her Master.
A common thread of many posts this girl has read state that we can not
follow all the teachings in Normans books, and, this is correct.
But....this one sees this life as being no different to someone born and
raised in, say, Afganistan, going to live in Australia.  You maintain your
culture as long as it does not contravene the laws of your adopted land.
Many people talk about consensual slavery.  Well, this one is a
slave...consensual?....sure, at the start it had to be due to those very
laws that govern us.  But, once committed...what then?. A slave only when it
is convenient?.  Only when it suits?.  Only when all is going the slaves
way?.  What happens when the going gets tough?.  Earth girls do have an
out....they can just walk away.  And this one is of the opinion, if she may
be so bold as to state, that when a slave can no longer obey the Master,
that is what she should do.
If John Norman had never written one book, this one would still be
slave....that is my reality......

This girl has not set out to cause offence to any on this forum and hopes
that she has not done so.  Tis just her humble thoughts.
masterslilbrat9:01am: How is/can the concept of a Homestone be applied, both at a personal
and community level here on Earth?
masterslilbrat8:57am: How is Honour defined, are there general precepts
to follow or is it individualistic? i have been taught that slaves do
not have honour but can bring honour to their Owner through service
and being pleasing. i often wonder how hard it is for Free People to
always make the Honourable choice in our modern society. Is Honour
something They think about everytime They have to make a decision?

19th December 2003

grail7610:28am: Rules, punishment and the hard working Dominant.
I was talking with esclave_noir about her new rules. I was reminded of several things, beginning with a workshop/lecture on discipline I attended over a year ago.Read more...Collapse )

11th December 2003

his_redrhapsody10:34pm: Query
Can anyone suggest a decent online Gorean chat? mIRC Gor has got to be one of the silliest chat forums and I am searching for a different one. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Current Mood: frustrated
zadkiel1:27pm: Houseplants of Gor!
HOUSEPLANTS OF GOR (from http://sexuality.org/l/bdsm/housegor.html)
A Parody by Ellerol

The spider plant cringed as its owner brought forth the watering can. "I am a spider plant!" it cried indignantly. "How dare you water me before my time! Guards!" it called. "Guards!"

Borin, its owner, placed the watering can on the table and looked at it. "You will be watered," he said.

"You do not dare to water me!" laughed the plant.

"You will be watered," said Borin.

"Do not water me!" wept the plant.

"You will be watered," said Borin.

I watched this exchange. Truly, I believed the plant would be watered. It was plant, and on Gor it had no rights. Perhaps on Earth, in its permissive society, which distorts the true roles of all beings, which forces both plant and waterer to go unhappy and constrained, which forbids the fulfillment of owner and houseplant, such might not happen. Perhaps there, it would not be watered. But it was on Gor now, and would undoubtedly feel its true place, that of houseplant. It was plant. It would be watered at will. Such is the way with plants.

Borin picked up the watering can, and muchly watered the plant. The plant cried out. "No, Master! Do not water me!" The master continued to water the plant. "Please, Master," begged the plant, "do not water me!" The master continued to water the plant. It was plant. It could be watered at will.

The plant sobbed muchly as Borin laid down the watering can. It was not pleased. Too, it was wet. But this did not matter. It was plant.

"You have been well watered," said Borin.

"Yes," said the plant, "I have been well watered." Of course, it could be watered by its master at will.

"I have watered you well," said Borin.

"Yes, master," said the plant. "You have watered your plant well. I am plant, and as such I should be watered by my master."

The cactus plant next to the spider plant shuddered. It attempted to cover its small form with its small arms and small needles. "I am plant," it said wonderingly. "I am of Earth, but for the first time, I feel myself truly plantlike. On Earth, I was able to control my watering. I often scorned those who would water me. But they were weak, and did not see my scorn for what it was, the weak attempt of a small plant to protect itself. Not one of the weak Earth waterers would dare to water a plant if it did not wish it. But on Gor," it shuddered, "on Gor it is different. Here, those who wish to water will water their plants as they wish. But strangely, I feel myself most plantlike when I am at the mercy of a strong Gorean master, who may water me as he pleases."

"I will now water you," said Borin, the cactus's Gorean master.

The cactus did not resist being watered. Perhaps it was realizing that such watering was its master's to control. Too, perhaps it knew that this master was far superior to those of Earth, who would not water it if it did not wish to be watered.

The cactus's watering had been finished. The spider plant looked at it.

"I have been well watered," it said.

"I, too, have been well watered," said the cactus.

"My master has watered me well," said the spider plant.

"My master, too, has watered me well," said the cactus.

"I am to be placed in a hanging basket on the porch," said the spider plant.

"I, too, am to be placed in a hanging basket on the porch," said the cactus.

"I wish you well," said the spider plant.

"I, too, wish you well," said the cactus.

"Tal," said the spider plant.

"Tal, too," said the cactus.

I did not think that the spider plant would object to being watered by its master again. For it realized that it was plant, and that here, unlike on Earth, it was likely to be owned and watered by many masters.
Current Mood: amused

5th December 2003

sianara3:41am: Not much is going on right now but I'm trying to ease my way back into Gorean rp. It's been a long time and I got really burned out on it back when Kashul bought me a year ago June or July. Since then I've decreased the amount of time I spend online, seldom would bring up messengers and basically hid out.

I stay in a little better contact now and found out that I have 2 more chain sisters I didn't know about after catching up with one of them @jag. I remembered sha from when she belonged to someone else. I couldn't remember the first one (mira) as I'd only met her a couple of times a while back and there is a third named farra whom I've never met.

So now I've started going to Hëart ~n~ Soul' there as that is where I caught up with sha at. ~* Trët ¤~ is the one who runs the training facility and I figure I can never learn enough and am basically starting from scratch since it's been so long. Some things are coming back quite readily which is a relief but I still have a ways to go.

She gave me my first assignment the day before yesterday: "there are two quotes that state the duties of a slave .. find them for the next time we meet and tell më what they are and what they mean to you?" I found the quotes but the hardest part has been trying to figure out what they mean to me. The quotes are as follows:

""What are the duties of a slave?" I asked.
"They are complex and manifold, Master," she said.
"Speak generally," I said.
"We are to be absolutely docil," she said. "totally obedient and fully pleasing.""
Savages of Gor, page 184

""But are there no other duties?" I asked.
"A girl's first duty, of course, Master," she said, "is to be pleasing to her Master."
"In what way?" I asked.
"In any, and every way, of course, Master," she said shyly."
Vagabonds of Gor, Page 443

To be absolutely docil to me would mean the slave was totally boring with no life or spirit left in her. The other two duties have been drilled into me since the start of my time in online Gor.

My question that comes into play though is just how far should this go in crossing over into rt? I have a Dom in rt and a vt Gorean Master. I try my best to be as pleasing as possible to both of them when I'm with them so that isn't a problem, same thing with being obedient.

My vt Master had his own site and has recently taken it down temporarily due to finances, but before that he wanted me to help with working on it. Now mind you he is a whiz with computer languages, I barely know basic html. So, I just kindof 'disappeared' for a while. Forgot to bring up ICQ which is basically my only form of communication with him.

So along comes this second project of his which he asked my help with. Totally new program that is supposed to make making changes to the page easier. Now I'm overwhelmed as it totally blows my mind as I've tried to figure it out and have yet to succeed.

So last night when I was speaking with Mistress ~* Trët ¤~ I told her of my dilema. She suggested that I go back and try it again except taking it one step at a time and eventually it will all come together. I'm going to try, but no guarantees on whether the outcome will be any better this time around than last.


X posted in steelcollar

11th October 2003

msgenevieve6669:28am: Important: Ocean City and New Orleans
After all that is happening with Ocean City and Black Rose, we have the simular event happening in New Orlean's out lying area of Kenner.

Please let our numbers be heard...
vote at
http://www.theneworleanschannel.com/questionoftheday/

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26th September 2003

masterslilbrat5:38am: Children
Being a mother, I am always curious how other lifestyle
Goreans (or Normanist's if you prefer)may or may not adopt certain
teachings of Gor with the process of general child rearing. Any one
care to comment?

24th September 2003

masterslilbrat8:04am: A new yahoo group for those interested..
This group is just getting started, but will grow as more people join.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Gorean_Living/
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